Joy and Healing at the Pride Parade and Festival

By Mike Lednovich

There was an abundance of rainbows, smiles and yes, love and support at the Fernandina Beach Pride parade and festival Saturday.

“What I see is Fernandina Beach coming together with tremendous support and for that, I say thank you,” said former Mayor Johnny Miller, addressing the crowd at Central Park from the event’s performance stage.

Miller recounted how the Fernandina Beach Pride parade and festival was born out of the tragic mass shooting at the Pulse nightclub in Orlando in June 2016.

“People from everywhere are here. People from Brunswick, South Georgia, Jacksonville and Nassau County because we’re the only (Pride) event in June,” said Genece Minshew, president of Fernandina Beach Pride. “We could not be more pleased at the turnout and all the love we’re feeling here.”

Minshew estimated the Pride Central Park attendance to be at about 2,000 people. There were 70 vendors at the park for the event. It’s Pride’s third festival, having missed a year due to the COVID-19 pandemic.

“This is about providing a safe place for the local LGBTQ community,” she said. “We are everywhere even in Florida small towns and it’s important that we recognize ourselves where we live. It’s important to show we’re a big part of the community as well as the other non-profits.”

The festival was kicked off with a morning parade through the historic downtown. Marchers heard calls of support, cheers and applause from people lining the streets.

The struggle for equality came to the forefront when people at the festival told their stories.

Makayla Davis, 19, from Callahan, recalled how she had endured years of torment while attending West Nassau High School.

“We were bullied and called freaks by other students. We’d ask the school administrators to do something about it, but nothing ever happened,” she said. “Pride is important to me because we have a safe place. We’re making advancements. This sort of event would never happen in Callahan.”

One of Davis’ friends, a transsexual, and still a student at West Nassau High School, said during the past school year she was told by some classmates to kill herself.

“It’s these friends who keep me safe and sane,” he said. “This festival reminds me to be who I am.”

Stephanie Crum drove from Kingsland to attend the festival in support of her bisexual daughter.

“It’s important for me to be here because for many years they (the LGBTQ community) have been exiled and not respected by the community. Their rights need to be recognized as humans just like us,” Crum said.

“The support should start at home because they’re being pushed, out in the community, so you have to show them love at home. You have to instill their confidence to be who they are. We don’t have anything like this in Kingsland. I think if it starts here, hopefully in time a Pride festival will reach my community.”

Even though it was a bright day with blue skies, there was no escaping the political undercurrent of anti-gay sentiment felt by many in attendance.

News media has reported that, according to the Human Rights Campaign, in 2023, more than 525 legislative bills were introduced in 41 states, with more than 75 anti-LGBTQ bills signed into law as of June 5.

Locally, Citizens Defending Freedom (CDF) worked unsuccessfully to block the festival from taking place at Central Park. CDF also worked to have Fernandina Beach Pride’s Drag Queen Bingo event stripped of its plan to play bingo.

CDF targeted drag queen Hecate in its effort to prohibit bingo at the Pride event.

“There’s a whole list of myths about drag queens, that we’re bad people, we’re sinful,” said Hecate, whose real name is Louis Vallejos. “I use drag queen performances to raise money like for the Pride scholarship fund and animal rescue. So far this year I’ve raised $103,000 for charities in Georgia and northeast Florida.”

Vallejos said political pressure from state and local agencies has severely handicapped those fund-raising efforts.

“I used to do about 12 bookings a month, but now I’m down to about four to five per year,” he said. “So it’s not just the LGBTQ communities that are affected, it’s all these non-profits that I support that are impacted.”

Vallejos, who has been a performing drag queen for the past six years, said current conditions have “many people at the lowest point.”

“This is why Pride is so important right now to show that we’re not going to move,” he said.

As soon as the interview concluded, Vallejos was in demand with hugs and smiles from people seeking photographs with the performer.

“What a great day. What a feeling,” Vallejos exclaimed when swarmed by admirers.

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missyjean
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10 months ago

It’s absolutely ridiculous to have parades and months to celebrate one small group of people because of their sexual identity. We should celebrate Veterans for a whole month and have many parades for the people who fight to save all our US Constitutional and God given rights. No one cares what adults sexual preferences are but flaunting this and celebrating this in the streets be it gay or straight in front of children will always be wrong and considered grooming to most people.

Last edited 10 months ago by missyjean
angeldoccie2003@yahoo.com
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10 months ago
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It isnt about celebrating sexual preferences MissyJ. It is about recognizing part of our community and I abhor the hate and anger and lies that have been rampant in the past 2 years on this island. Actually in case you didnt know we do have several holidays celebrating our Vets. Our Rotary Club was there along with many vendors who are well known here. No one asked you to attend.

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10 months ago
Reply to  missyjean

Oh and in a week we will celebrate JUNETHEENTH with our African American Brethren

tjstoll
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10 months ago
Reply to  missyjean

May is Military Appreciation Month. Pretty sad that somebody who wants to suppress lgbtq+ by celebrating the military didn’t know that. But that’s the way it always is. If you want to help the homeless they always come back with “we have to help our veterans first” but they never do. It’s just a rhetorical tool they use to justify action or inaction on groups they hate because they know mentioning veterans gets a kneejerk response.

rconrad
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10 months ago
Reply to  missyjean

We do recognize our military, though the recognition and care for verteran sacrifice is never enough. We have two veteran designated national holidays (Memorial and Veterans) as well as Armed Services Day. There a number of individual service recognition days, plus May is National Military Appreciation month.

Pride month poses no threat to anyone. Perhaps we should all be more caring and loving, in the model of Jesus’ teachings, stop using Christianity as a tool of intolerance.

Jay Kayne
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Jay Kayne(@jay-kayne)
10 months ago

Missyjean, you know, I don’t need to know what nationality people are either, but I have no problem with inebriated people on St. Patrick’s Day begging me to kiss them because they are Irish. And I don’t need to know that I am going to hell because I do not accept someone as my savior, but if people want to spend money on highway billboards, so be it. And if my children asked me about either of these, I would take the time to explain they have the right to their opinion and lifestyle. It doesn’t mean we have to participate, endorse or even acknowledge it.

For the record, I attended the festival out of curiosity and to support some friends. And I came away with something I did not expect. People were joyously and peacefully “celebrating” something. What a pleasant contrast to the daily cacophony of hate speech, shootings and lack of civility.

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Peggie Weeks
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10 months ago

Thank you, Mike, for a great article about a great day. I am so proud of our beloved community! I was honored to participate in the parade with my Unitarian Universalist Church community. My hope and prayer is that compassion will continue to be the norm and will grow for our LGBTQ+ brothers and sisters.

oldtimehockey
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10 months ago

2000 people supporting sinful, unnatural behavior. When will we start celebrating pedophiles? We are a sick country right now because we’ve lost all concept of sin.

tjstoll
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10 months ago
Reply to  oldtimehockey

It’s unnatural? God created it. Why do you hate God? Btw, when you decide to round up all the pedophiles, start with all the churches to get the biggest bang for your buck.

Last edited 10 months ago by tjstoll
jmichea
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10 months ago
Reply to  oldtimehockey

Hate IS the sin, so look inward to work on eliminating your sin.

Mark Tomes
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10 months ago
Reply to  oldtimehockey

There are over 350 animals that have been documented to engage in homosexual behaviors. Many animals actually change their gender, depending on their environmental conditions. If you believe in God, you have to admit that God created all those animals, and their behaviors, as well. If you believe in God, then you must admit that God sometimes creates people with all different chromosomal and DNA and hormonal differences, and those differences create a variety of behaviors in people. It’s not sinful, it’s reality.

RichardCain
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10 months ago
Reply to  Mark Tomes

And once again every time someone posts something that’s a bit over the top the mob feels it necessary to post some “thoughtful” or even “scientific” rebuttal. Please … comparing humans with animals that have the fascinating ability to change genders is rather pathetic. Transsexuality and homosexuality are two very different things but yet we bring both in for the argument as if they are intertwined. Be careful about declaring all behaviors as “God created” and therefore acceptable. Using this logic as presented … presumably various abhorrent behaviors like pedophilia, psychopaths, serial killers … are “not sinful, it’s reality”. Thehe Pride Festival has come and gone … love, peace and understanding and all that … but the Right needs to stop bringing up God in the discussion and the Left needs to learn to drop references to the “science” they claim to understand.

Peggy Bulger
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10 months ago

I was so pleased to be at the festival with a crowd that was happy, open, respectful with NO untoward behavior . . . no alcohol, no drugs and no violence. MissyJean and OldTimeyHockey I am sorry for your fear of folks who are different. It will make your life less blessed to be so judgemental of others who you don’t know. At my age, I remember the 1960s and the fear of “Hippies” who were also advocating for inclusive love — there were no mass shootings then and the world seemed safe for all of us. I, for one, will take love over fear any day.