“Our island community” An opinion

By Nancy Dickson
February 9, 2017 9:00 a.m.

We are a small island of neighbors. We do not agree about everything, especially politics right now, but most of us live, work, and play in close proximity to one another. We share schools, shops, and churches. We love our beaches, our greenway, and our parks.

Recent political events, however, have caused a rift in our social and economic fiber. I hear of people, neighbors and friends, who are suddenly out of work because they don’t support the right political party. I have talked to people who fear to speak out about their concerns and beliefs for fear of losing their jobs. I have been shunned by folks I thought were – if not friends, at least good acquaintances.

Our island is small. If we create two camps (armed or not), of “them” and “us,” we will all suffer. We are faced with a moral and economic choice here. Do employers really want to have neighbors suddenly unemployed because they don’t agree politically? Do folks really want to see a line in the sand with camps of us and them? We, as a small community, have an opportunity to choose; will we be vindictive or agree to disagree? Will we choose to coexist or drive the wedge of political partisanship deeper into our fiber?

We all share needs, wants, and dreams for ourselves and our families (although we don’t always agree on the best way to achieve them). We have shown, though our commitment to volunteerism and philanthropy, that we do care about one another.

In the recent past, we have come together to build a new library, a new humane society facility, and are working to build a new Council on Aging building. We support our children through the Boys and Girls club; the less fortunate, through Barnabas; abused women, through Micah’s Place; and many more groups – religious and lay – work together for the common good. Folks from all sides of the political spectrum came together to make these wonderful things a reality for our small island.

Today, as emotions and feelings run high, individual decisions about how to treat those around us (neighbors, employees, acquaintances and friends) can make our island a strong community or turn it into a fractured society, unpleasant and unworkable because it is filled with hate and fear. My hope is that we can agree to disagree and become, once again, a vibrant, argumentative, accepting, and tolerant community.

Editor’s Note: Nancy Dickson moved to our island community in 2008.  She holds a PhD in English, and an MA in Urban Planning.  She served as a union organizer, civil rights activist, co-organizer of the Downtown Peace Coalition in San Francisco,  La Leche League Leader, and is the mother of two, and grandmother of three. We thank Nancy for her contribution to the Fernandina Observer.

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Helen Green
Helen Green (@guest_48460)
7 years ago

I agree completely. In these difficult times for our country and our people we MUST work together to see what needs to be done, and do it with open eyes and open hearts!

Nancy Dickson
Nancy Dickson(@nancyjackathenshotmail-com)
7 years ago
Reply to  Helen Green

Thank you for your support and kind words

George Jones
George Jones (@guest_48466)
7 years ago

When the Democrats learn they lost the election and stop being so mean spirited,
then, maybe our community and nation can come together again. Folks on the other
side are just waiting to see when or if this happens.

Robert Warner
Robert Warner (@guest_48468)
7 years ago
Reply to  George Jones

Given the first 3 weeks of Trump, it might just be a long wait.

CHUCK HALL
CHUCK HALL(@bob)
7 years ago

hahahaha
well…… that little reprieve lasted about 4 hours!!!
Let’s arm wrestle !!!!!!

Thomas C. Washburn
Thomas C. Washburn (@guest_48473)
7 years ago

I quite agree with Nancy Dickson’s opinions. We can decide with whom to have deep relationships, but we must decide to treat everyone in the community with respect and dignity. I am a Board member of a newly-formed group called Compassionate Fernandina (website is Compassionate Fernandina.org; we are also on Facebook). I urge all of us to act in line with the Golden Rule in treating all others as we would like to be treated.

Pastor Helen D. Jackson
Pastor Helen D. Jackson (@guest_48474)
7 years ago

It is always a good practice to live by the Golden Rule. Thank you Nancy Dickerson and Tom Washburn for keeping us positive and moving forward as a community that respects and embraces differences. Let us remain strong as a community working in unity.

Cliff Baxter
Cliff Baxter(@ccbaxter3aol-com)
7 years ago

It is difficult to challenge the spirit of Ms. Dickson’s opinion: we SHOULD be a “vibrant, argumentative, accepting and tolerant community..”, although I might disagree with the “argumentative” part. We ought to be able to agree to disagree without becoming argumentative in the process. It is also difficult to disagree with her suggestion that we have become a much more divided and contentious society overall, and perhaps our community has become so as well. But I have to question her comment about people being “…suddenly out of work because they don’t support the right political party…” Really? Where is this happening? Does anyone have any specific examples of people being fired because they support the wrong political party?